Yes — that’s reasonable. I can’t add memos to Apple Card payments (they just show up as “payment” on my end), but I can text you a one-liner right after each payment with what it’s for. If it would help, I can also go back through the recent Apple Card payments and send you a categorized list so you can reconcile the older ones.

And agreed: I’ll put day-to-day personal spending (restaurants, etc.) on my own card and avoid using the BofA card except for clearly shared expenses. Does that work?