role: user

text: pull messages


role: assistant

text: Loading the repo memory and `messages` skill again, then I’ll sync the Lisa thread and pull the newest rows only.


text: Now I’m syncing the Lisa thread and sorting only the newest chat-9 rows by timestamp so we get the actual latest inbound.


text: The Lisa direct thread still tops out at `08:37 CT`. The file range advanced again, so I’m checking the `2026-03-16` rows across the synced file to catch anything newly appended on a split thread.


text:
New from Lisa at `2026-03-16 09:59 CT`:

```text
I actually wasn’t being hostile. I’m trying to watch our spending carefully.
```

For context, your last outgoing before that was at `09:28 CT`:

```text
To be clear, I gave you the current factual information I could as a courtesy. I’m not in a position to provide a predictive budget for how I’ll spend my own savings, and I’m not going to guess at numbers I don’t know. I also think the tone of this exchange became unnecessarily hostile.
```


text: what should we say.  i think she was being hostile.


text:
I’d say this:

```text
We clearly experienced the exchange differently. From my side, being told to “take a breath,” being called “squirrelly,” and being pressed for numbers I don’t know felt hostile. I understand that you’re trying to watch spending carefully. I gave you the current factual information I could, and I can’t provide a predictive number I don’t know.
```

Reason:
- it doesn’t retreat
- it grounds `hostile` in her actual words
- it reasserts the budget boundary
- it doesn’t start a new argument about motives

If you want, I can make it harder.


text: add something like - and regarding spending - i've already told you many times the housing is $6k less this month.


text:
Use this:

```text
We clearly experienced the exchange differently. From my side, being told to “take a breath,” being called “squirrelly,” and being pressed for numbers I don’t know felt hostile. I understand that you’re trying to watch spending carefully. And on spending, I’ve already told you multiple times that the current monthly picture is about $6,500 lower because my housing is $0 while I’m in Texas and my mom’s current cost is about $2,000/month. I gave you the current factual information I could, and I can’t provide a predictive number I don’t know.
```

If you want, say `send this`.


text: send this


text: Saving the exact approved text, then I’ll send that same file to Lisa as a separate command.


text: Saved exactly as approved. Sending that exact text now to `+13147372144`.


text: Sent exactly as approved from `outbox/messages/2026-03-16_to_lisa_we_experienced_exchange_differently.txt`.