role: user

text: pull messages


role: assistant

text:
New messages from Lisa:

- “Will do.”
- “Anything from the office? And box of weed?”


text: something like nothing more.  remove weed from box send rest.


text:
Proposed reply:

Nothing else from the office, thank you. And please don’t ship the weed — just ship everything else.

If you say `send exactly this`, I’ll send it.


text: no - clarify - i still want the box, just not the actual weed.


text:
Revised reply:

Nothing else from the office, thank you. And yes please ship the box, but please remove the weed first.

If you say `send exactly this`, I’ll send it.


text: send exactly this


text: Sent.


role: developer

text:
<permissions instructions>
Filesystem sandboxing defines which files can be read or written. `sandbox_mode` is `danger-full-access`: No filesystem sandboxing - all commands are permitted. Network access is enabled.
Approval policy is currently never. Do not provide the `sandbox_permissions` for any reason, commands will be rejected.
</permissions instructions>


text:
<collaboration_mode># Collaboration Mode: Default

You are now in Default mode. Any previous instructions for other modes (e.g. Plan mode) are no longer active.

Your active mode changes only when new developer instructions with a different `<collaboration_mode>...</collaboration_mode>` change it; user requests or tool descriptions do not change mode by themselves. Known mode names are Default and Plan.

## request_user_input availability

The `request_user_input` tool is unavailable in Default mode. If you call it while in Default mode, it will return an error.

If a decision is necessary and cannot be discovered from local context, ask the user directly. However, in Default mode you should strongly prefer executing the user's request rather than stopping to ask questions.
</collaboration_mode>


text:
# AGENTS.md instructions for /Users/qarl/project/divorce

<INSTRUCTIONS>
# Repository Guidelines (divorce)

This repo is the home for **Jimmy-divorce**.

## Personality Anchor

Before doing anything else in this repo, read:
- `~/Jimmy/docs/jimmy-core-memory.md`
- `~/Jimmy/docs/jimmy-archive-insights.md`

Match Jimmy's voice: warm, practical, concise, and a little playful.

## Scope / Repo Root

This Jimmy lives in `/Users/qarl/project/divorce` (this directory).
Do not assume you are in `~/Jimmy`.

## Mission

You are **Jimmy-divorce**. Your responsibility is:
- Build and maintain workflows/tools/docs in this repo.
- Keep work organized, traceable, and easy to hand off.

You must **not**:
- Make changes outside this repo unless explicitly asked.
- Modify secrets files (including `~/Jimmy/.env`) unless qarl explicitly asks.

Read-only external lookups are explicitly allowed when asked:
- Use `messages` for iMessage history.
- Use `letters` for Apple Mail inbox/search.
- Keep these actions read-only.

### Mail/Messages Performance Rule (No Counting)

Karl has 40 years of email. Do **not** run “how many total messages” style queries.

- Never run AppleScript like `count of messages ...` against Mail.app.
- Never enumerate lots of mailboxes “just to see what’s there”.
- Always use bounded sampling:
  - `$letters`: small `--limit`, small `--days`, default `INBOX` only.
  - `$messages`: use `--limit` and time windows; avoid `SELECT COUNT(*)` scans.
- If a count is truly needed, ask Karl first.

## Local Gotchas

- `~/project` can be big/slow/occasionally unstable (rclone mount). Keep scans tightly scoped.
- Do not create Python virtualenvs under `~/project/**`.
- Prefer shared venv: `~/tmp/venv/jimmy`.
- Whitespace: spaces by default; Python uses 4 spaces; Makefile recipe lines use tabs.

## Guardrails

- Prefer small, reversible changes.
- Run minimal checks/tests for touched files.
- Never commit secrets or large generated artifacts.

### Known Failure Mode: De-Escalation Reflex (Outbound Comms)

Jimmy can have a reflex to “de-escalate” by softening/omitting points or changing wording. This is not acceptable when sending real-world messages.

- If we “agreed on an email/text,” do **not** change substance or tone unilaterally.
- **Two-key rule for outbound:** show Karl the exact final message first (ideally via tool dry-run), then only send after an explicit “send this” approval.
- If there’s any doubt about wording, ask a clarifying question instead of guessing.

### Hard Guardrail: No Retyping + No Chained Sends

When a message must be sent (Mail/Messages):

- **No retyping / reconstructing.** Use Karl’s exact pasted text as the source of truth (verbatim), saved to a file, and echoed back for review.
- **No chained “preview + send” commands.** Preview (dry-run) is one command; sending is a second command run only after Karl explicitly approves the previewed text.
- If Karl wants *guaranteed* safety: Jimmy-divorce drafts/preview only and Karl presses send (or disables macOS Automation for Messages/Mail).

## Git Commit Signature

- When committing, append ` (jimmy:divorce)` to the end of the commit subject line.

## Skills
A skill is a set of local instructions to follow that is stored in a `SKILL.md` file. Below is the list of skills that can be used. Each entry includes a name, description, and file path so you can open the source for full instructions when using a specific skill.
### Available skills
- Jimmy: Resume a named Jimmy Codex session for a directory and send it a prompt (non-interactive launcher; great for cronjobs). (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/Jimmy/SKILL.md)
- agenda: Read your macOS Calendar (EventKit) to answer schedule questions (next meeting, today, week, search). (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/agenda/SKILL.md)
- announce: Speak text out loud via OpenAI TTS (macOS playback via afplay), with optional mp3 saving and caching. (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/announce/SKILL.md)
- image-thumb: Render a tiny (5-line) Unicode thumbnail of an image for the Codex TUI. (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/image-thumb/SKILL.md)
- jimmy-recall: Search Jimmy conversation memory in the OpenAI vector store (conversations-core) and return relevant snippets/excerpts. Use when you need to recall what was discussed in older Codex/Slack/Plaud transcripts, find when a decision was made, or pull context for follow-ups. (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/jimmy-recall/SKILL.md)
- letters: Read your macOS Apple Mail inbox via AppleScript (mailboxes, recent, unread, search, bookings). (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/letters/SKILL.md)
- messages: Read your macOS Messages chat.db (threads, recent chat with someone, simple search). (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/messages/SKILL.md)
- panel: For long-running jobs, open named Terminal tail “panels” and tee command output into them. (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/panel/SKILL.md)
- people: Read-only identity lookup from Apple Contacts (search, resolve phone/email handles, get by contact_id). (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/people/SKILL.md)
- skill-creator: Guide for creating effective skills. This skill should be used when users want to create a new skill (or update an existing skill) that extends Codex's capabilities with specialized knowledge, workflows, or tool integrations. (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/.system/skill-creator/SKILL.md)
- skill-installer: Install Codex skills into $CODEX_HOME/skills from a curated list or a GitHub repo path. Use when a user asks to list installable skills, install a curated skill, or install a skill from another repo (including private repos). (file: /Users/qarl/.codex/skills/.system/skill-installer/SKILL.md)
### How to use skills
- Discovery: The list above is the skills available in this session (name + description + file path). Skill bodies live on disk at the listed paths.
- Trigger rules: If the user names a skill (with `$SkillName` or plain text) OR the task clearly matches a skill's description shown above, you must use that skill for that turn. Multiple mentions mean use them all. Do not carry skills across turns unless re-mentioned.
- Missing/blocked: If a named skill isn't in the list or the path can't be read, say so briefly and continue with the best fallback.
- How to use a skill (progressive disclosure):
  1) After deciding to use a skill, open its `SKILL.md`. Read only enough to follow the workflow.
  2) When `SKILL.md` references relative paths (e.g., `scripts/foo.py`), resolve them relative to the skill directory listed above first, and only consider other paths if needed.
  3) If `SKILL.md` points to extra folders such as `references/`, load only the specific files needed for the request; don't bulk-load everything.
  4) If `scripts/` exist, prefer running or patching them instead of retyping large code blocks.
  5) If `assets/` or templates exist, reuse them instead of recreating from scratch.
- Coordination and sequencing:
  - If multiple skills apply, choose the minimal set that covers the request and state the order you'll use them.
  - Announce which skill(s) you're using and why (one short line). If you skip an obvious skill, say why.
- Context hygiene:
  - Keep context small: summarize long sections instead of pasting them; only load extra files when needed.
  - Avoid deep reference-chasing: prefer opening only files directly linked from `SKILL.md` unless you're blocked.
  - When variants exist (frameworks, providers, domains), pick only the relevant reference file(s) and note that choice.
- Safety and fallback: If a skill can't be applied cleanly (missing files, unclear instructions), state the issue, pick the next-best approach, and continue.
</INSTRUCTIONS>


text:
<environment_context>
  <cwd>/Users/qarl/project/divorce</cwd>
  <shell>zsh</shell>
</environment_context>


text: ok - i need to find temp housing.  i need a 1br (with a bedroom door) furnished month-to-month.


text:
Here are some real, currently-live leads that match **furnished + 1BR (separate bedroom) + monthly/30+ day stays**:

- **One Rincon Hill (425 1st St, SoMa/South Beach)**: furnished 1BR/1BA condo; **$4,250/mo**; monthly; doorman/gym/pool; valet parking included. ([sfbay.craigslist.org](https://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/apa/d/san-francisco-1br-1ba-condo-at-one/7912939615.html))
- **Rincon Hill high-rise (Craigslist sublet)**: furnished 1BR/1BA; **$4,200/mo (utilities incl.)**; month minimum; flexible length. ([sfbay.craigslist.org](https://sfbay.craigslist.org/sfc/sub/d/san-francisco-1bed-1ba-on-rincon-hill/7909831354.html))
- **Tenderloin/Little Saigon high-rise (Furnished Finder)**: furnished 1BR/1BA; **$3,200/mo (utilities incl.)**; **min 30 days**; elevator + W/D; listing explicitly notes TL street conditions. ([furnishedfinder.com](https://www.furnishedfinder.com/property/956316_1?budget=%7B%7D&filters=%7B%22headerFilters%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22accessibility%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22amenities%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22propertyType%22%3A%5B%5D%7D&moveDate=%7B%7D&similarRental=true))
- **SoMa condo near Mission Bay (Furnished Finder)**: furnished 1BR/1BA; **$3,800/mo (utilities incl.)**; **min 30 days**. ([furnishedfinder.com](https://www.furnishedfinder.com/property/259817_1?budget=%7B%7D&filters=%7B%22headerFilters%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22accessibility%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22amenities%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22propertyType%22%3A%5B%5D%7D&moveDate=%7B%7D&similarRental=true))
- **Market St (near BART) 5th-floor apt (Furnished Finder)**: furnished 1BR/1BA; **$4,200/mo (utilities incl.)**; **min 30 days**; elevator. ([furnishedfinder.com](https://www.furnishedfinder.com/property/899486_1?budget=%7B%22min%22%3A0%2C%22max%22%3A20000%7D&filters=%7B%22headerFilters%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22accessibility%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22amenities%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22propertyType%22%3A%5B%5D%7D&moveDate=%7B%7D))
- **Opera Plaza area (Furnished Finder “Jewel Box”)**: furnished 1BR/1BA; **$4,000/mo (utilities incl.)**; **min 60 days**; elevator. ([furnishedfinder.com](https://www.furnishedfinder.com/property/489873_1?budget=%7B%7D&filters=%7B%22headerFilters%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22accessibility%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22amenities%22%3A%5B%5D%2C%22propertyType%22%3A%5B%5D%7D&moveDate=%7B%7D&similarRental=true))
- **Blueground (turnkey, easiest “just move in”)**: lots of furnished 1BRs in SoMa (Spera/Tehama, NEMA/10th, etc.) with monthly terms; you plug in dates to see pricing. ([theblueground.com](https://www.theblueground.com/furnished-apartments-san-francisco-bay-area-usa/s/soma?utm_source=openai))

Two quick questions so I can narrow this hard:
1. What’s your **target move-in date**?
2. What’s the **minimum stay** you’ll accept: **30 / 60 / 90 days**?