role: user

text: marriage date is 02/25/2005.  can you determine seperation date from messages emails?  the day i flew to spokane.


text:
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text: i believe the flight to spokane happened about 2 weeks ago.  you should be able to find ample mention of it in both email and messages.


text: don't look at emails if it's a problem.  it's in my messages too.


role: assistant

text: Finding “Spokane” in Messages (not email) and extracting the exact date/time it comes up, so we can treat that as your separation date marker.


text:
Found it in Messages (no email needed):

- **Sun Feb 8, 2026 (4:18pm PT):** you texted Lisa you were going to “sneak out tonight and sleep at the airport.”
- **Mon Feb 9, 2026 (9:36am PT):** you texted “i’m in.”

So your “flew to Spokane” separation marker is **Feb 9, 2026** (with the travel starting the night of **Feb 8**).

I added **Married: 2005-02-25** and **Separation marker: 2026-02-09** to `records/lawyers/freed/2026-02-23_call_prep.md` and `records/lawyers/freed/facts_sheet.md`.


text: perfect.  what else will i need?


text:
Call is in **~63 minutes** (it’s **08:27 PST** now; call is **09:30 PST**).

Here’s what you’ll want at hand (or at least rough answers for):

- **Marriage location** (city/state) to go with `2005-02-25`
- **Kids/dependents**: names + ages + where they live (and any special expenses)
- **Residency**: where Lisa lives (city/county) + how long she’s been in Missouri; where you live now
- **Income**: your current income (`$0`), last job/end date; Lisa’s income/employment (rough, if known)
- **Assets**: house(es), bank accounts, retirement accounts (even “none”), vehicles, any business interests (just categories + rough ballparks)
- **Debts**: mortgage, credit cards, loans (categories + rough ballparks)
- **Trust**: any trust name/trustee you know, what you receive (if anything) vs what’s locked, and whether there are regular distributions
- **Immediate asks**: interim cash-flow/support/status-quo while counsel aligns; SF housing; mom’s assisted living stability
- **Clean “none” answers** (if true): no filings yet; no DV/protective orders/police issues

Also have ready to say, if asked: **“Yes, I can cover a reasonable retainer; tell me your typical range and process.”**

If you give me **marriage location + Juno’s age/status + Lisa’s city/county**, I’ll tighten the 2-minute “short version” script to match your facts exactly.


text: married in SF, CA.  one kid (non-binary) Juno born 12/12/2007


text:
Added those facts to the call prep + facts sheet (commit `d19799e`):

- Married: **2005-02-25 (San Francisco, CA)**
- Child: **Juno (non-binary), born 2007-12-12 (age 18)**

**What you still want ready for the call (high-impact)**
1. Lisa’s current city/county in Missouri + how long she’s lived there.
2. Any big-asset headline: house (address/state), major accounts, any retirement (even “none”), major debts (rough).
3. Lisa’s employment/income (rough, if you know it).

If you give me #1 and #2 in one line each, I’ll tighten the 2-minute “short version” script into something you can literally read verbatim.


text: Lisa is in St. Louis, MO for roughly 15 years.  own home.  own bank account with roughly $70k.  no debts aside from mortage.  Lisa unemployeed with around $17k/mo allowance from trust.


text: corpus on trust is roughly $5 million


text:
Added it (commit `5d703f2`):

- `records/lawyers/freed/facts_sheet.md`: trust corpus now notes **~$5,000,000 (approx)** and that you’re **not** a beneficiary.
- `records/lawyers/freed/2026-02-23_call_prep.md`: short-version + trust bullet now include **~$5M (approx)**.