role: user

text: we need to write to Lisa - "FYI - My mom's OT says she's deteriorating rapidly.  visual hallucinations frequently.  this morning she saw a rat.:


role: assistant

text:
```text
FYI — Mom’s OT says she’s deteriorating rapidly. She’s been having frequent visual hallucinations; this morning she said she saw a rat. I wanted you to be aware.
```

Want it sent as-is?


text: can you make it sound more professional?


text:
```text
FYI — Mom’s occupational therapist says she’s deteriorating rapidly. She’s experiencing frequent visual hallucinations; this morning she reported seeing a rat. I wanted to make sure you were aware.
```


text: Good morning it’s Jade with OT I saw your mom this am and she is Hallucinating a lot she saw a rat run across the floor this am and she thought you were there with her. She is also seeing a black dot in her R eye. She is a high fall risk and really needs someone with her all the time. Just giving you an update. She told me not to tell you but you really need to know what is going on. Please don’t tell her I told you she will be mad at me and not tell me stuff anymore.


text:
```text
FYI — Jade (Mom’s occupational therapist) saw her this morning and reports a marked increase in visual hallucinations. Mom reported seeing a rat and also thought I was there with her. She also reported seeing a black dot in her right eye. Jade considers her a high fall risk and recommends continuous supervision.

I’m going to follow up with the facility/medical team, but I wanted you to be aware. Also, please don’t mention to Mom that this update came from Jade; she asked that it stay confidential so Mom will keep sharing symptoms with her.
```

Do you want this as a text, and should I include Jade’s name or keep it as “her OT”?


text: no, that's the letter from the OT.  i  didn't write it.  can you incorporate it into the message we're sending Lisa?


text:
```text
FYI — I just got an update from Mom’s OT this morning. She reports a significant increase in Mom’s visual hallucinations (including seeing a rat run across the floor and thinking I was there with her). She also reported seeing a black dot in her right eye. The OT considers her a high fall risk and recommends someone be with her at all times.

I’m going to follow up with the facility/medical team, but I wanted you to be aware. Also, please don’t mention to Mom that this update came from her OT; she asked that we keep her as the source confidential so Mom will keep sharing symptoms with her.
```


text: appologize for the interruption but explain i thought it was important.


text:
```text
Sorry to interrupt your morning, but I thought this was important. I just got an update from Mom’s OT this morning: she reports a significant increase in Mom’s visual hallucinations (including seeing a rat run across the floor and thinking I was there with her). She also reported seeing a black dot in her right eye. The OT considers her a high fall risk and recommends someone be with her at all times.

I’m going to follow up with the facility/medical team, but I wanted you to be aware. Also, please don’t mention to Mom that this update came from her OT; she asked that we keep her as the source confidential so Mom will keep sharing symptoms with her.
```


text: no, i'm interrupting her "space" - please pull the recent message thread for context.


text:
Latest with Lisa (Feb 22): she said she needs “a couple of days” and “a little space to reflect,” and you replied that you’ll “give you space” and look for her follow-up.

Draft that fits that context:

```text
Lisa — sorry to interrupt your space; I know you said you’d follow up in a few days. I just got a concerning update from my mom’s OT this morning and wanted to make sure you’re aware: she’s been having frequent visual hallucinations (including seeing a rat run across the floor and thinking I was there). She also reported seeing a black dot in her right eye. The OT considers her a high fall risk and recommends continuous supervision. I’m following up with the facility/medical team today; no need to respond right now. Also, please don’t mention to my mom that this update came from her OT; she asked that we keep her as the source confidential so my mom keeps sharing symptoms with her.
```


text: don't send.  it's just pressure.


text:
Agreed. Given the “space” thread, that text reads like a poke and could easily feel like pressure.

Two low-pressure options:

1) Don’t text Lisa at all. Act on it directly: call the facility/nurse line, ask for an urgent eval (falls + hallucinations + new visual symptom), and loop in your sister Kori.

2) If you truly need Lisa aware, send the shortest possible “heads up, no response needed” note without any ask:
```text
Lisa — quick heads up (no response needed): Mom’s OT reported increased hallucinations this morning and flagged her as high fall risk. I’m following up with the facility/medical team today.
```

Which path do you want?


text: do 2.


text:
```text
Lisa — quick heads up (no response needed): Mom’s OT said her visual hallucinations increased this morning and flagged her as a high fall risk. Mom also reported a black dot in her right eye. I’m following up with the facility/medical team today.
```

If you want me to send it, tell me `send this` and I’ll do a dry-run preview first.


text: send this


text: Running a dry-run preview for the exact text to Lisa, then I’ll send it.


text: Sent to Lisa (`+13147372144`) exactly as previewed.


text: thank you.  can we prepare for my call with the lawyer that starts in 90 minutes-ish?


text:
Yep. It’s **07:46 PST** right now; your call with **Alan Freed** is **09:30 PST** (dial `314-244-3653`). I updated `records/lawyers/freed/2026-02-23_call_prep.md` with a 2-minute “short version” script + a list of likely intake questions.

**What to do in the next ~90 minutes**
1. Open `records/lawyers/freed/2026-02-23_call_prep.md` and plan to read the **60-second opening**, then the **2-minute short version** if he asks.
2. Jot quick answers for the “Likely Intake Questions” section (even rough is fine):
- date/location of marriage
- separation date (if any)
- kids/dependents (names/ages)
- where each of you lives + MO residency duration
- rough income/employment for each of you (if known)
- big assets/debts (just categories)
- trust: what you receive vs what’s locked
- any prenup/postnup drafts/discussions
3. Keep the “If Time Is Short (Priority Order)” list in front of you so you don’t get dragged into story.

If you paste me: **marriage date/location** + **kids/ages** + **(rough) Lisa income/employment**, I’ll tighten the short-version script to match your exact facts.